Friends.. Who can be your REAL friends and who are shallow-minded??? Many..
I was clearing my email inbox when I came across 2 emails forwarded to me by a close friend of mine. Those emails that were between two "friends" and made me realised that they are "accusing" me, making me realised that their friendship with me is soooo shallow...
I got to know one of them, A when I was studying my part time diploma, and hence got to know the other one (B) thru her as well.. I did all I can to help them in all ways.. For me, when I am unhappy with someone or whatever things that happen to me, I will vent my fustrations by either complaining to a friend or cry it out loud.. And I have this group of friends(C) who will joke with me, although sometimes I cannot take their jokes, but I also did not tell them straight and problems started.... I will complain about them to A and she will console me and all sorts lah.. Den later some things happen and as someone who protected friends' privacy I refused to give A my group of C's contacts. A got it thru other means and a series of quarrels happened.. In the end, I quarrelled with C and did not contact for 6 months after A mentioned they are not worthy to be my friends.. A insults C in her blog and made herself seemed like she is a victim... After 6 months, I did not contact C and contact less of A & B, and on my birthday last year, I patched up with C... And this incurred the wrath of A & B, and C tried to email to explain to B when I got threatening calls from A & B. Later, C forwarded the emails to me and I got a shock and realised that A & B dun even treasure my friendship and despite doing so much for them, they despised me.. This makes me feel how shallow our friendship is... And later A & B tried to push all their wrong doings to me, making me a scapegoat of their wrong doings... A even wrote a blog saying how much I hurt her when she treated me soooo well... Shit, who is treating who well, when C mentioned for A to take down the blogs as it reflects her as a shallow person, she retorts saying blog is a way to vent her fustrations as well.. So now I am also venting my fustrations, cos when I read the emails, I was sooo hurt by their accusations that I cried, while C mentions to me that no point crying for those kind of people.. I seriously think that I am so STUPID to befriend them and treating them so well..
Anyway, now I do not contact them and I am much more happier and I am really glad that they showed me their ture colours.. It is ok cos I know I have got better friends, thousands of times better than them and anyway, thanks to C that I seen their true colours... At least I know my friendship with C and group are not shallow... They stood by me when I needed help now.. And I told them I cannot take some "jokes" which they made fun of me.. We are now more truthful and I am sure our friendship will last longer... Thank you my dear friends.. U know who you are...
I was clearing my email inbox when I came across 2 emails forwarded to me by a close friend of mine. Those emails that were between two "friends" and made me realised that they are "accusing" me, making me realised that their friendship with me is soooo shallow...
I got to know one of them, A when I was studying my part time diploma, and hence got to know the other one (B) thru her as well.. I did all I can to help them in all ways.. For me, when I am unhappy with someone or whatever things that happen to me, I will vent my fustrations by either complaining to a friend or cry it out loud.. And I have this group of friends(C) who will joke with me, although sometimes I cannot take their jokes, but I also did not tell them straight and problems started.... I will complain about them to A and she will console me and all sorts lah.. Den later some things happen and as someone who protected friends' privacy I refused to give A my group of C's contacts. A got it thru other means and a series of quarrels happened.. In the end, I quarrelled with C and did not contact for 6 months after A mentioned they are not worthy to be my friends.. A insults C in her blog and made herself seemed like she is a victim... After 6 months, I did not contact C and contact less of A & B, and on my birthday last year, I patched up with C... And this incurred the wrath of A & B, and C tried to email to explain to B when I got threatening calls from A & B. Later, C forwarded the emails to me and I got a shock and realised that A & B dun even treasure my friendship and despite doing so much for them, they despised me.. This makes me feel how shallow our friendship is... And later A & B tried to push all their wrong doings to me, making me a scapegoat of their wrong doings... A even wrote a blog saying how much I hurt her when she treated me soooo well... Shit, who is treating who well, when C mentioned for A to take down the blogs as it reflects her as a shallow person, she retorts saying blog is a way to vent her fustrations as well.. So now I am also venting my fustrations, cos when I read the emails, I was sooo hurt by their accusations that I cried, while C mentions to me that no point crying for those kind of people.. I seriously think that I am so STUPID to befriend them and treating them so well..
Anyway, now I do not contact them and I am much more happier and I am really glad that they showed me their ture colours.. It is ok cos I know I have got better friends, thousands of times better than them and anyway, thanks to C that I seen their true colours... At least I know my friendship with C and group are not shallow... They stood by me when I needed help now.. And I told them I cannot take some "jokes" which they made fun of me.. We are now more truthful and I am sure our friendship will last longer... Thank you my dear friends.. U know who you are...
